Keep your eyes pretty.

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Do not check out other men. Even when done on the sly many men will pick it up. Loyalty is one of the most important qualities that men look for in a woman. If he sees you looking at other men, he will start to question your ability to be loyal.

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The one above is one, and the following make up the rest.

1. Being late. Being late at acting awards is quite cool, but you're no Angelina Jolie and I'm no Brad Pitt and we're not vying for any awards. In my book there's nothing more annoying than your date showing up late. You're looking to get off to a great start right at the get-go so don't be late, you'll be fighting an uphill battle before the date even begins. Show some respect, please.

2. Blabbering. Okay, your date did show up early, but then he/she starts talking nonstop about himself/herself. Could be a sign of nervousness, you say? Could be or you could be talking to a self-absorbed swellhead with an ego the size of Manhattan. If you're guilty of this, please stop. It's simply not cool.

3. Checking out someone else. If you're with me, your eyes should be ON ME at least half of the time. I give you permission to look at the floor or ceiling or your shoes once in a while, and your food, but never, ever, let me catch you checking out that sexy dude at the other table or I'm out of there faster than you could say, "Wait!"

4. Being kiss and tell. And on Facebook and Twitter, no less! I know this is the digital age and some of us just have this compulsion to share everything about what we do on a daily basis. But for the love of God, please refrain from posting blow-by-blow status updates about how your date is going, what he/she looks like, the food you're feasting on, and whether you are making out inside the car at 11 p.m. Especially if your date happens to be one of your contacts.

What Do Men Really Like!

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With men is all about priorities and which things comes first, so based on this theory here are some tips you can use when dealing with your man;

1. Do not call him girly related names even if joking, that will piss him off and will take a while for him to get over it.

2. Let him be a man, you be the softer side, you are supposed to.

3. COOK!, if you know how and have the time so cook!, in fact get your man involved in the kitchen, we love it! Guess what.... Most likely your man will start cooking too.

4. Share your man his interests, some of it not all... I know how stupid this may sound but men love women who share their interests.

5. Men like a little to no makeup at all, if they liked the way you looked after you woke up next to him the first time, you are secure, no need for extra make up.

6. Tell him your problems when the time is right, don't over complain just tell him what is it that bothers you straight up, without going in circles. The timing is important and I will let your gut decides that.

7. One person's garbage is someone else's treasure. Let me put it another way: The right guy is going to find your weird habits absolutely adorable. Don't be afraid to joke, laugh, and bring out the real you! Guys love simplicity.

Do Not Assume That You Know What Is Best.

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You may want to do what you feel is right, and you may even feel very passionately about doing so, but sometimes this just isn't the case. Take a step back and think about things in better detail before you take action on anything.

A man who sees a woman make an inappropriate mistake that could have been avoided will likely come off as being somewhat immature. Avoid drama at all costs and get some opinions before your final decision is set in stone.

Silly mistakes, on the other hand, such as tripping over your own feet, are perfectly normal. Don't be afraid of making a few every now and then and learn to laugh them off.

What you need to know is that you do not need to have it all figured out.

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You only need to make the first step and reach out. That is the only truly big thing that needs to happen. You must approach them by simply walking up to them and saying hello. You do not need to plan it out because a conversation can go in many directions.

If you try to plan everything out, this may overwhelm you and probably cause you to hold yourself back form approaching them at all. The bigger you make the moment in your mind, the harder it will feel. Try not to think about the outcome or what will happen, simply plan on approaching this person at the next best opportunity.

If you let the moment go by because you are afraid, then you will never know what could have been.

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To be afraid of someone solely because you like them is understandable, but the fear is there because you do not know if they like you. You could hit it off and plans could be made, but you will never know if you are too afraid to talk to them. Remember, it is only the opening you need to have and try to be yourself.

Try to remind yourself that this is only another person just like you, someone you may like, but they may like you as well. If we keep ourselves from reaching out because of a fear of rejection, then we will never know the other person or find out what could have been. If you are not meant to be together or go out with each other, then you will find out, but only if you approach them first.

Keep it simple; do not over-think it or worry about it, just approach them and try to be yourself.

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Try to keep yourself centered and in a comfortable space. If you are nervous, then take deep breaths and do not think about what might happen. Clear your mind, calm your emotions, and have confidence in yourself. What is the worst that could happen; this person turns you down? If they do, then you are free to move on and let the crush go. 

In fact, you owe it to yourself to find out now, rather than feeling the way you do about them and never doing anything about it. You will not regret having tried. In fact, you will be proud of yourself for being so brave. Rejection only hurts for a moment, but a crush can last forever. Find out if your crush could become something more because it could. 

Wouldn't you like to know? Be brave, if only for that moment; trust that either way you will be okay and just say hello. Don't over-think it; remain calm and be yourself. When the right moment comes in your conversation to ask, do. Just ask and be proud that you did. Ask if the other person would like to get together, create the option to get connected; that is all you need to do. It is not any more overwhelming than just one question, and you can do it. Let yourself find out if there can be more because there really could be.