Don't try to meet women in bars.

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The most important tip I think there is. Just like women don't usually want to meet a potential boyfriend in a bar, I wouldn't recommend trying to meet a potential girlfriend in one. Bars are loud, smoky and usually full of people who are quite drunk. You're not only usually going to find more of a Party Girl in a bar, but you're also likely to be disappointed when you meet her in the daylight. 

In the bar, in her drunken stupor, you may have looked like somebody she wanted to get to know better. In daylight, things and people can look very different. There's no point setting yourself up for disappointment before you even start so - avoid the bars!

Fight right.

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In order to have productive arguments, keep these rules in mind. 

Don't call your spouse names. 

When things get really tough, take a break from the argument. 

Let the other person finish his/her sentences. 

Don't initiate a discussion when you're angry.

Don’t always approach

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Don’t always approach the man that you see looking at you. Sometimes let them approach you. When they do you will know that they are interested. A man will not approach a woman unless they are interested.

However, if the man is too shy and you really want to meet him then you will have to take matters into your own hands. Use your own judgment on this.

Dating A Single Dad

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1. You are not a parent to his kids yet. Depending on how long you have dated you really have no voice in how he raises his kids. You do have the right, though, to expect to be treated with respect from his kids.If you are new to the relationship you should wait to even meet his kids until you have dated for a while. No sense getting everyone all excited for what may be nothing.

2. If you know the kids mom you may as well face the fact that you are now the new women replacing the old one. You are going to hear mostly one side of what went wrong, his side. Your job is not to play mediator.If you are around the kids do not take sides or put down their mom. When you're around the single dad you can be as supportive as you want to, but do not be afraid to tell him to put a lid on it if you get tired of listening about what's her name.

3. If you have an opinion on something then feel free to express it to him, just don't express it in front of his kids. It is always a good idea to keep communication open in an honest and straight forward manner.

Control Your Anger

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Every relationship has difficulties, and sometimes, there can be some intense arguments. For the sake of your relationship and the love you have for your mate, keep your anger in check. 

First, when people are angry, hurtful words fly, usually not even meant. However, after spoken, it is too late to take them back - the damage is done. 

Another problem with anger is that the word "divorce" can easily be thrown around. You may not mean it, but you know it hurts, thus making you the winner of the argument. 

NEVER talk about divorce in your relationship, even if just teasing. If you need to go to another room to cool off, and then do that, but whatever you do, do not allow your anger to take control of your relationship.

Follow Tradition

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Keep some tradition in your marriage, which relates to the vows you took and the fact that marriage is sacred. 

Treat each anniversary as a celebration of your love and the time spent together. 

Follow the traditional anniversary gifts and see how creative you can be. 

The first year anniversary gift is paper. 

One husband bought his wife a beautiful Chinese drawing on rice paper, signed by the artist, and had it framed for her. 

Make this fun, exciting, and keep traditions alive.

Turn the Computer Off

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Often the computer becomes a replacement for a lack of something in the relationship. It might be just surfing, playing games, or getting involved with websites that promote pornography. 

If you notice that your mate is spending more and more time on the computer, take this as a sign that even if not doing anything wrong, they are choosing to spend the time with the computer instead of you. 

In other words, use this as a sign that something is missing in your relationship. Start by talking and searching to confirm what it is bothering your mate and then work on making it better!