Thursday, December 30, 2010

Art of Conversation

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The First Thing you must realize that everyone feels fear and apprehension about most 'firsts' in their lives, especially when it comes to dealing with romantic interests. It all comes down to making choices. You can decide that you will get your fear cripple you and prevent you from possibly meeting great potential partner as well as possible in great relationships.

Second, you need to realize that when a man or woman approaches someone they are attracted to, they tend to feel the need to act differently than they normally would almost as if they are better able to defend their ego if the conversation should end in rejection.

Third, They should not be faker. Don't be a victim of this destructive trend! 'Faker' will not make it with anyone they approach unless the abject of their deception wants to be teir victim abd that isn't that often

Approaching A Women

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# When approaching a woman do not forget to smile. A genuine smile never fails to put her at ease because by smiling you are conveying a message that you are a friendly person and not another creepy guy. It also shows that you are confident. Moreover, smiling does not only make you feel good, it also makes her feel good.
# Learn how to listen to whatever she is saying. Listening carefully will not only help you pick up the details of the interaction but it will also show that you are paying attention. When you pay attention that means you are interested. This will keep you in line with the topic because once you deviate from the topic she might lose her interest in you.
# Move slow and steady. This will make you appear as someone who is deliberate and decisive. This will also keep her from putting her guards up and shutting you out. Therefore, when you move towards her move casually, walk slowly, and relax.

Secrets of how to get a girl you like to like you

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Step number one

Before a girl can like you she has to know you exist. This step assumes that the girl doesn't yet know you exist. Maybe it's a girl you know in school you've seen her around you think she's really pretty and you like her but you don't know what to do or what to say. It is very simple next time you see your walk past her in a casual pace, turn to her, and then just say hi. At this point she's either going to really notice you or she's not.

Step number two

In this step we are going to test to see if when you walk pasted the girl you like and said hi if she really noticed you. A day or two later place yourself in close proximity with the girl somehow. Stand there and look at her and wait for her to look at you. See if she smiles and says hi. If she does then you definitely made an impression the day before and she probably likes you. At this point you simply walk over introduce yourself and shake her hand. Engage in a brief conversation with or maybe three or four minutes. The idea here is you want to make yourself no longer a stranger but you still want to be a mystery.

Step number three

Today when you see the girl since you are no longer a total stranger you are going to approach her, walk right up to her, say hi and ask her out. Nothing too complex or deep date wise. Maybe grab a burger at a burger joint, get coffee, something simple casual and uncomplicated.

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