Fight right.

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In order to have productive arguments, keep these rules in mind. 

Don't call your spouse names. 

When things get really tough, take a break from the argument. 

Let the other person finish his/her sentences. 

Don't initiate a discussion when you're angry.

Don’t always approach

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Don’t always approach the man that you see looking at you. Sometimes let them approach you. When they do you will know that they are interested. A man will not approach a woman unless they are interested.

However, if the man is too shy and you really want to meet him then you will have to take matters into your own hands. Use your own judgment on this.

Dating A Single Dad

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1. You are not a parent to his kids yet. Depending on how long you have dated you really have no voice in how he raises his kids. You do have the right, though, to expect to be treated with respect from his kids.If you are new to the relationship you should wait to even meet his kids until you have dated for a while. No sense getting everyone all excited for what may be nothing.

2. If you know the kids mom you may as well face the fact that you are now the new women replacing the old one. You are going to hear mostly one side of what went wrong, his side. Your job is not to play mediator.If you are around the kids do not take sides or put down their mom. When you're around the single dad you can be as supportive as you want to, but do not be afraid to tell him to put a lid on it if you get tired of listening about what's her name.

3. If you have an opinion on something then feel free to express it to him, just don't express it in front of his kids. It is always a good idea to keep communication open in an honest and straight forward manner.

Control Your Anger

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Every relationship has difficulties, and sometimes, there can be some intense arguments. For the sake of your relationship and the love you have for your mate, keep your anger in check. 

First, when people are angry, hurtful words fly, usually not even meant. However, after spoken, it is too late to take them back - the damage is done. 

Another problem with anger is that the word "divorce" can easily be thrown around. You may not mean it, but you know it hurts, thus making you the winner of the argument. 

NEVER talk about divorce in your relationship, even if just teasing. If you need to go to another room to cool off, and then do that, but whatever you do, do not allow your anger to take control of your relationship.

Follow Tradition

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Keep some tradition in your marriage, which relates to the vows you took and the fact that marriage is sacred. 

Treat each anniversary as a celebration of your love and the time spent together. 

Follow the traditional anniversary gifts and see how creative you can be. 

The first year anniversary gift is paper. 

One husband bought his wife a beautiful Chinese drawing on rice paper, signed by the artist, and had it framed for her. 

Make this fun, exciting, and keep traditions alive.

Turn the Computer Off

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Often the computer becomes a replacement for a lack of something in the relationship. It might be just surfing, playing games, or getting involved with websites that promote pornography. 

If you notice that your mate is spending more and more time on the computer, take this as a sign that even if not doing anything wrong, they are choosing to spend the time with the computer instead of you. 

In other words, use this as a sign that something is missing in your relationship. Start by talking and searching to confirm what it is bothering your mate and then work on making it better!

Making Love

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Love Couple

Intimacy is a huge part of a successful relationship. Choose a book from the bookstore and try to bring a little excitement into your relationship. 

Do not be afraid to experiment and learn new and exciting ways to please each other. Keeping intimacy alive is healthy and not a bad thing whatsoever!

Tips To Help Keep A Girl

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1. Keep your promises!!! if you say ur gonna call her on Wensday call her on Wensday even if it kills u!

2. Be honest, girls hate being lied to

3. Tell her exactly how you feel dont hold back; she'll love it

4. If she seems tired kiss her and say shes beautiful

5. Trust that she will be faithful to you

6. When you go in for the first kiss go SLOW dont scare her

7. Anything romantic you want to say to her dont say it over the phone or email say it to her in person it will mean so much more to her

8. When you want to tell her I love you, say it to her while looking into her eyes

9. Hug her from behind with your arms around her waist

10. Tip her chin up with your finger to kiss her

11. Be romantic for no reason

12. Understand that shes not always going to agree with you

13. Don't cling to her, she wants independence

Why Flirt?

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Flirting is a way to call attention to yourself and impress your crush with your wit and charm, plus make them know you like them without ever having to spell it out. Most of us don't feel too comfortable with just saying it, and part of the fun of a potential new relationship is the game of "Is he or she flirting or aren't they?" There's a certain thrill to flirting.

The bonus perk to flirting is that it makes you feel better about yourself! When your flirting is well received, you feel more important and liked. And while your main goal is to snag a sweetie, the only person who really needs to like you is you. It's a great cycle because the more you like yourself, the more others will be drawn to you. Just don't become a narcissist! The self-assuredness you gain in your flirting adventures will stick with you for life.

How To Be Funny Around Girls

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1) Have a positive attitude and energy

The first thing you should do is to have a positive attitude and give off good energy. I personally know many guys who THINK they are really witty but are avoided by everyone because they are so cynical and negative. You can’t be funny unless you are warm, positive, and energetic. People won’t like you much if you’re always negative, period!

2) Loosen up and relax

Try to loosen up and relax like you are among your best friends. Everyone is a bit funny when they are relaxed and among friends.

3) Don’t be desperate or try to impress

Your jokes will seem a bit “off” if you are too desperate or try too hard to impress a girl. The more you try to impress, the more your body will tense up and the less funny you will be. You’ll probably end up looking like a desperate guy who’s trying too hard.

4) Play along when she teases you

Women will often tease you once they are comfortable enough to Joke around. Unfortunately, many guys will get defensive and ruin  the rapport as a result. Don’t make the same mistake.

For example, if a woman laughs and calls you a nerd, don’t get  defensive and start telling her all the cool things you do.  Instead, laugh WITH her and proudly tell her you are the king of  all nerds. Then start doing your best nerd imitation.

Approaching woman fearlessly is easy!

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Love Couple

We as men are conditioned from the time we are babies not to talk to strangers. Later in life we are told that approaching women is odd or disrespectful. We think that they will lash out at us.

Then, if we do approach a woman, our blood pressure rises, we start to sweat and we become some other weird creature. Combine this with our fear of rejection and say bye bye to all these awesome opportunities to meet gorgeous women.

Answer me this, when was the last time you approached an attractive woman you did not know? Let’s qualify this further. When was the last time outside of a bar or club you approached an attractive woman? I bet for many of you the answer is never! Open your mouth and say something. You will be shocked at the overwhelming positive response you will get.

Women want to talk to you. Sure, there are times when they are in bitchy moods or in a rush but 9 out of 10 times you will get a positive response. I know because I do it

For a girl you’ve been with for 6 months

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Love Couple

If you’ve crossed the six months itch, your girl deserves a better gift – slightly more passionate and personal. Usually buying the first piece of jewellery for her post six months makes a lot of sense. 

Invest in a dainty pair of silver, stone studded silver or pearl earrings, get them packed in a delicate transparent fabric bag and you are all set. 

A decorative jewellery box is another option. And if you feel particularly close to her, add a bunch of silk flowers or dried flowers. Spray them on with a lingering fragrance before you gift them and it will work wonders.

Be creative

Date Couple

Date Couple

You’re not like anybody else on the planet, and neither is your date, so why do the two of you have to follow anybody else’s rules or precedents about what you want, how you act, where you go, or how you communicate? If it’s okay with the two of you — and it’s not illegal — then why not?

Make Her Feel Good on a Date

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Love Couple

"Enough about me, I want to know more about you." This is a simple line that can show your interest to your date. The sincerity of truly wanting to know your date makes this line much stronger and believable.

In a date, look for the good things in her and pay little attention to her imperfections. You should not expect your date to be perfect since this will ruin the entire date because she may not live up to your expectations.

You have to let her know and feel that her not so good traits are just minor set backs for you. Let her feel that no matter how the world would react about her not so good traits, you are not ashamed of being with her.

Let her see and feel that you can get along with her. You can smile, laugh, and even do crazy yet nice stuff with her if possible.Making her feel good about herself will help you earn her respect. This will surely mold you into someone unforgettable.

Making her feel good while going out with you takes confidence on your part. And for being such a good alpha male, she will surely tell her friends about it and the 2nd date with her would most likely happen.

Making Future Plans

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Love Couple

When she spends time with a guy, she talks about all the things she'd like to do with him. Girls with good game like to suggest a lot of plans quickly, from jogging dates to how quickly they want to see him again to cultural experiences they would enjoy together. 

And girls with really good game will make those plans match up to interests and hobbies of the guy's. As a man, its hard not to fall for it. "Wow, this girl LIKES me! And I didn't even have to work too hard for it." 

It can come subtly, as in "Yeah, there's this play I've been wanting to check out," or it can be more direct, like "So would you want to go see this play next week?" And hey, sometimes its genuine. But other times it is very calculated. You don't know until you start to get a better picture of the girl.

Know who you are

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Love Couple

If a woman asks questions who you are and what you do and what you want to achieve in life, then you should know what to answer. If you begin to stutter, flush red and say "Well, I have no clue, I am too helpless for this world" then this is NOT what they want to hear.

By mentioning your hobbies, your job, sport interests you describe yourself as someone with a stable background whom she can classify and trust. And trust is important to give you her telephone number.

Magnetic Mystery Man

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Many women don't simply date YOU. They date a mysterious man who actually happens to walk by with your body. Thus clouding yourself in a mystery can help. If you walk in and the girl thinks "Wait a minute, who is this man??" then you have already hit the first target. "Aroused by curiosity" so to speak.

You could tell things from your life, but without giving the full background just to "mysteriousify" yourself . You could say, "I saved many lives of stray cats... these poor little creatures." (only if it's true, of course) but not telling WHY. She wouldn't know whether you are a veterinarian or a fireman or whatever. Woman LIKE to be in a wonderworld with their fantasies going (= too much information spoils fantasies).

Signing up for a Dating Agency

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Love Couple

Dating agencies were once associated with embarrassing social stigmas, but not anymore. These days, it's extremely trendy to use an agency to find dates. Dating and finding a date is fun and enjoyable. After all, dating is really just about meeting new people and searching for a special connection. 

Dating agencies fall into two categories: traditional and Web-based. The first are those traditional dating agencies that help you find a date but charge hundreds of dollars to offer you the chance to meet a few people in their database they have matched you with. They then offer you the chance to meet, if both parties are interested. It's slow and long-winded, but it can work sometimes, although rarely are there guarantees of any kind. 

The main thing about such dating agencies is that they often specialize in a certain area -- maybe profession or financial, etc. Some may concentrate on the medical or legal profession; others may focus on, say, executives in a certain region.

Looking To Date Again

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If you are looking to date again after recovering from a recent breakup, then there are a few things to keep in mind. It can be difficult to go through a breakup and then try to find somebody new. This is something that is going to be painful and difficult to do unless you understand how to allow yourself to heal and get yourself emotionally on the right track.

Rebound Date:-Everybody is going to have to go through the rebound date. This is a person that you will go out on a date with just to help you get over your ex. Being on a rebound date can be a painful place to be in regardless of which side of the table that you are on. It is important to not try to lead your rebound date on as it has a very bad chance of being able to go the distance.

Let Time Pass:-It is a good idea to let a little bit of time pass. It is not wise to jump from 

relationship to relationship as you will not get to have any time to yourself. While time to yourself is not something that you may always want after a break up it is still something that is a good idea to have.

Have Realistic Expectations:-It is so important that you do not expect your new date to be exactly like your old date. Don’t assume that she will lie to you or he will cheat on you. It is important that you take the time to get to know this person and not make any assumptions.

Other players only want one thing...

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I'm sure you saw this coming, because this is the classic player -- the one who sees women as objects to use for his own sexual satisfaction, and nothing more. This type of player is usually very good at what he does. There is no harm in mutual casual sex, but the reason that this player is particularly nasty is he often misleads women into thinking there is more to the relationship than that. And you know what? He enjoys it. It doesn't matter how many women cry and beg and plead, on the inside, this player likes that sort of attention and uses that high to fuel his next sexual conquest. Don't let it be you!

Some players merely want to stroke their ego

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Love Couple

Let's face it. The male ego is HUGE. At least 45964% bigger than a woman's ego... wouldn't you agree? The fact of the matter is that all men have a NEED to pamper their ego. However, different men have different ideas of how to go about doing this. This type of player tends to use women exclusively for this purpose, and can often be seen leading women on and flirting with every woman, even ones that he has no interest in. This type of player learned early in life that his charm and appeal make women happy, and he uses this to serve his true master: his ego.

These men will waste a lot of your time, but are usually easy to sniff out. They will never settle down and cannot usually be tamed, because one woman is simply not enough to satisfy their vast and hungry ego.

Dress according to your personality

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Babes

You should wear your clothes according to your personality, and not according to what is the trend and what is popular. I am sure you probably have seen some guys before who was wearing something that was really popular and trendy but in your mind you were like going "No way man, no way."

Even if you think that you don't need to be so updated and keen on fashion, you have to got to think from a woman's perspective. Women are also known as fashion police, and the moment your piece of clothing does not seem to match your personality or body type, they can see it from far away.

The best way to choose your clothes would be to seek the honest opinions of a best female friend.

Don't Wait Too Long To Ask

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There's an old adage that says, "Good things come to those who wait." That doesn't necessarily apply to asking out girls on dates. If you wait too long to ask out a girl, she may accept a date from someone else and already be in a relationship by the time you get the nerve to ask her.

Remember that girls respond positively to confidence. If you display the self-confidence to step up and ask out the girl -- even if you are nervous about doing so -- you will earn her respect (and hopefully a "yes" to your request!).

Keep your eyes pretty.

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Do not check out other men. Even when done on the sly many men will pick it up. Loyalty is one of the most important qualities that men look for in a woman. If he sees you looking at other men, he will start to question your ability to be loyal.

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The one above is one, and the following make up the rest.

1. Being late. Being late at acting awards is quite cool, but you're no Angelina Jolie and I'm no Brad Pitt and we're not vying for any awards. In my book there's nothing more annoying than your date showing up late. You're looking to get off to a great start right at the get-go so don't be late, you'll be fighting an uphill battle before the date even begins. Show some respect, please.

2. Blabbering. Okay, your date did show up early, but then he/she starts talking nonstop about himself/herself. Could be a sign of nervousness, you say? Could be or you could be talking to a self-absorbed swellhead with an ego the size of Manhattan. If you're guilty of this, please stop. It's simply not cool.

3. Checking out someone else. If you're with me, your eyes should be ON ME at least half of the time. I give you permission to look at the floor or ceiling or your shoes once in a while, and your food, but never, ever, let me catch you checking out that sexy dude at the other table or I'm out of there faster than you could say, "Wait!"

4. Being kiss and tell. And on Facebook and Twitter, no less! I know this is the digital age and some of us just have this compulsion to share everything about what we do on a daily basis. But for the love of God, please refrain from posting blow-by-blow status updates about how your date is going, what he/she looks like, the food you're feasting on, and whether you are making out inside the car at 11 p.m. Especially if your date happens to be one of your contacts.

What Do Men Really Like!

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Love Couple

With men is all about priorities and which things comes first, so based on this theory here are some tips you can use when dealing with your man;

1. Do not call him girly related names even if joking, that will piss him off and will take a while for him to get over it.

2. Let him be a man, you be the softer side, you are supposed to.

3. COOK!, if you know how and have the time so cook!, in fact get your man involved in the kitchen, we love it! Guess what.... Most likely your man will start cooking too.

4. Share your man his interests, some of it not all... I know how stupid this may sound but men love women who share their interests.

5. Men like a little to no makeup at all, if they liked the way you looked after you woke up next to him the first time, you are secure, no need for extra make up.

6. Tell him your problems when the time is right, don't over complain just tell him what is it that bothers you straight up, without going in circles. The timing is important and I will let your gut decides that.

7. One person's garbage is someone else's treasure. Let me put it another way: The right guy is going to find your weird habits absolutely adorable. Don't be afraid to joke, laugh, and bring out the real you! Guys love simplicity.

Do Not Assume That You Know What Is Best.

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Date Couple

You may want to do what you feel is right, and you may even feel very passionately about doing so, but sometimes this just isn't the case. Take a step back and think about things in better detail before you take action on anything.

A man who sees a woman make an inappropriate mistake that could have been avoided will likely come off as being somewhat immature. Avoid drama at all costs and get some opinions before your final decision is set in stone.

Silly mistakes, on the other hand, such as tripping over your own feet, are perfectly normal. Don't be afraid of making a few every now and then and learn to laugh them off.

What you need to know is that you do not need to have it all figured out.

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Date Couple

You only need to make the first step and reach out. That is the only truly big thing that needs to happen. You must approach them by simply walking up to them and saying hello. You do not need to plan it out because a conversation can go in many directions.

If you try to plan everything out, this may overwhelm you and probably cause you to hold yourself back form approaching them at all. The bigger you make the moment in your mind, the harder it will feel. Try not to think about the outcome or what will happen, simply plan on approaching this person at the next best opportunity.

If you let the moment go by because you are afraid, then you will never know what could have been.

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Date Couple

To be afraid of someone solely because you like them is understandable, but the fear is there because you do not know if they like you. You could hit it off and plans could be made, but you will never know if you are too afraid to talk to them. Remember, it is only the opening you need to have and try to be yourself.

Try to remind yourself that this is only another person just like you, someone you may like, but they may like you as well. If we keep ourselves from reaching out because of a fear of rejection, then we will never know the other person or find out what could have been. If you are not meant to be together or go out with each other, then you will find out, but only if you approach them first.

Keep it simple; do not over-think it or worry about it, just approach them and try to be yourself.

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Date Couple

Try to keep yourself centered and in a comfortable space. If you are nervous, then take deep breaths and do not think about what might happen. Clear your mind, calm your emotions, and have confidence in yourself. What is the worst that could happen; this person turns you down? If they do, then you are free to move on and let the crush go. 

In fact, you owe it to yourself to find out now, rather than feeling the way you do about them and never doing anything about it. You will not regret having tried. In fact, you will be proud of yourself for being so brave. Rejection only hurts for a moment, but a crush can last forever. Find out if your crush could become something more because it could. 

Wouldn't you like to know? Be brave, if only for that moment; trust that either way you will be okay and just say hello. Don't over-think it; remain calm and be yourself. When the right moment comes in your conversation to ask, do. Just ask and be proud that you did. Ask if the other person would like to get together, create the option to get connected; that is all you need to do. It is not any more overwhelming than just one question, and you can do it. Let yourself find out if there can be more because there really could be.