Control Your Anger

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Every relationship has difficulties, and sometimes, there can be some intense arguments. For the sake of your relationship and the love you have for your mate, keep your anger in check. 

First, when people are angry, hurtful words fly, usually not even meant. However, after spoken, it is too late to take them back - the damage is done. 

Another problem with anger is that the word "divorce" can easily be thrown around. You may not mean it, but you know it hurts, thus making you the winner of the argument. 

NEVER talk about divorce in your relationship, even if just teasing. If you need to go to another room to cool off, and then do that, but whatever you do, do not allow your anger to take control of your relationship.

Follow Tradition

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Keep some tradition in your marriage, which relates to the vows you took and the fact that marriage is sacred. 

Treat each anniversary as a celebration of your love and the time spent together. 

Follow the traditional anniversary gifts and see how creative you can be. 

The first year anniversary gift is paper. 

One husband bought his wife a beautiful Chinese drawing on rice paper, signed by the artist, and had it framed for her. 

Make this fun, exciting, and keep traditions alive.

Turn the Computer Off

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Often the computer becomes a replacement for a lack of something in the relationship. It might be just surfing, playing games, or getting involved with websites that promote pornography. 

If you notice that your mate is spending more and more time on the computer, take this as a sign that even if not doing anything wrong, they are choosing to spend the time with the computer instead of you. 

In other words, use this as a sign that something is missing in your relationship. Start by talking and searching to confirm what it is bothering your mate and then work on making it better!

Making Love

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Intimacy is a huge part of a successful relationship. Choose a book from the bookstore and try to bring a little excitement into your relationship. 

Do not be afraid to experiment and learn new and exciting ways to please each other. Keeping intimacy alive is healthy and not a bad thing whatsoever!

Tips To Help Keep A Girl

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1. Keep your promises!!! if you say ur gonna call her on Wensday call her on Wensday even if it kills u!

2. Be honest, girls hate being lied to

3. Tell her exactly how you feel dont hold back; she'll love it

4. If she seems tired kiss her and say shes beautiful

5. Trust that she will be faithful to you

6. When you go in for the first kiss go SLOW dont scare her

7. Anything romantic you want to say to her dont say it over the phone or email say it to her in person it will mean so much more to her

8. When you want to tell her I love you, say it to her while looking into her eyes

9. Hug her from behind with your arms around her waist

10. Tip her chin up with your finger to kiss her

11. Be romantic for no reason

12. Understand that shes not always going to agree with you

13. Don't cling to her, she wants independence

Why Flirt?

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Flirting is a way to call attention to yourself and impress your crush with your wit and charm, plus make them know you like them without ever having to spell it out. Most of us don't feel too comfortable with just saying it, and part of the fun of a potential new relationship is the game of "Is he or she flirting or aren't they?" There's a certain thrill to flirting.

The bonus perk to flirting is that it makes you feel better about yourself! When your flirting is well received, you feel more important and liked. And while your main goal is to snag a sweetie, the only person who really needs to like you is you. It's a great cycle because the more you like yourself, the more others will be drawn to you. Just don't become a narcissist! The self-assuredness you gain in your flirting adventures will stick with you for life.

How To Be Funny Around Girls

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1) Have a positive attitude and energy

The first thing you should do is to have a positive attitude and give off good energy. I personally know many guys who THINK they are really witty but are avoided by everyone because they are so cynical and negative. You can’t be funny unless you are warm, positive, and energetic. People won’t like you much if you’re always negative, period!

2) Loosen up and relax

Try to loosen up and relax like you are among your best friends. Everyone is a bit funny when they are relaxed and among friends.

3) Don’t be desperate or try to impress

Your jokes will seem a bit “off” if you are too desperate or try too hard to impress a girl. The more you try to impress, the more your body will tense up and the less funny you will be. You’ll probably end up looking like a desperate guy who’s trying too hard.

4) Play along when she teases you

Women will often tease you once they are comfortable enough to Joke around. Unfortunately, many guys will get defensive and ruin  the rapport as a result. Don’t make the same mistake.

For example, if a woman laughs and calls you a nerd, don’t get  defensive and start telling her all the cool things you do.  Instead, laugh WITH her and proudly tell her you are the king of  all nerds. Then start doing your best nerd imitation.