Be creative

Date Couple

Date Couple

You’re not like anybody else on the planet, and neither is your date, so why do the two of you have to follow anybody else’s rules or precedents about what you want, how you act, where you go, or how you communicate? If it’s okay with the two of you — and it’s not illegal — then why not?

It's Okay to Say 'No, Enough!'

Love Couple

Love Couple

Some years back, I bumped into an old school friend who by the time we met had been married for two years. She told me how she and her husband had bought a house on the same street as her mother and she'd regretted the decision ever since. Her mother, she said, had to pass her house on her way home from work every evening. If she saw lights on in Joanne's house, she'd taken to dropping in to say 'hello' and have a chat. However, the 'dropping in' had developed into a daily routine and had become a source of conflict for Joanne and her husband who like most newlyweds were longing to create a life of their own. To resolve the problem, the couple had resorted to arriving home and remaining in the dark until they were certain Joanne's mother had passed by and gone home.

Another woman I knew, in her thirties this time, was living alone when she decided to give her mother a key to her home believing it an excellent idea on several different levels. However, it didn't seem such a good idea when her mother took to putting the key in Fidelma's front door and strolling into her apartment unannounced. On one such occasion, Fidelma had to scamper quickly out of her bedroom to avoid her mother opening her bedroom door and discovering Fidelma had company.

Niamh is constantly trying to build her business and it involves a certain amount of networking. Just recently, one of her valued contacts admitted while under the influence of alcohol, "I've always fancied you." Niamh chose to deflect the conversation to another topic however, since then her married contact who used to call only occasionally with possible leads has since taken to calling her most nights and over the weekends. While Niamh wants only a professional relationship, she's been feeling uneasy about the recent turn of events. Niamh is handling the situation now by avoiding her contact's calls and responding to his voicemails by email apologising blaming her unavailability on meetings or family events.

If you're a teenager...

Teen Couple

Teen Couple

Teen Couple

Usually many teenagers are actually not ready for a relationship yet, and this is the reason why they fail. One more thing that might make them not feeling ready for a new relationship is that boys reach emotional maturity when they are around twenty, and it is different for girls as they are ready for a relationship earlier than boys. But this is natural and there is nothing to worry about.

So once you are ready, you should know a bit more about teenage girls in general. Young girls will be emotional, they will need your support and understanding. Teenage girls will need your attention and in most cases they will want to get all your time. They like you to repeat how beautiful and kind they are, so remember this and make her happy! Keep in mind that teenage girls may be very jealous. Yes, it might sound difficult to handle, but that's how it is.

If you are teenager trying to get into a relationship with a teenage girl, a very important point to think about is that maybe a girl you are dating has never had sex before. Do respect her decisions, always take care of her, listen to what she says. It is your responsibility to make sure about things if you BOTH decide to have sex.

If you were ready to start dating this girl, you should also be ready for the fact that this girl will be more attached to you after having sex. This is an important part in a relationship and it makes a girl very emotional. It is because of her feelings to you, because she is also ready for your lasting relationship.

How You Can Create Attraction With Her

Love Couple

Love Couple

Love Couple

Let's say that you want her to be sexually attracted to you. There are some things you can do. Some are simple such as wash and be polite. Others are more complex - especially if you have had a fight or something. Then you may have to get her interested in you all over again. This can be done, but sometimes it is even harder than starting from scratch.

Be fit. If you are not in good shape, get fit. Work out. Women are attracted to strong men. Make the most of your looks. While no one should ever 'get by on looks alone' everyone likes a pretty face and this applies to you to. If you are tall, be attractive because you are tall. If you are thick set be attractive because of it. Women do have preferences but having a good attitude about your own appearance helps others to find you attractive.

Scents: oils and colognes. If you are targeting a specific woman it will be best to find out what exactly she wants and to do that. Women do not all like the same scents. For example, some like the natural musky scent of a man whereas others think that if they can tell what he naturally smells like then he stinks and should cover it up with something. Shaving creams, soaps and shampoos all come with mild perfumes. There are also colognes and oils if strong scents are needed or if the woman has a favorite.