Most of the time, neither choice really is the right one.

Romantic Dating Couple

Romantic Dating Couple

Romantic Dating Couple

Try and persist too hard, and you might end up with a restraining order. Shy away and assume that you can never get a date with her... and that WILL end up being your experience. You really need to look at it from another perspective. Just because a woman says no the first time you ask her out, does not mean that she will never say yes to you. And just because she said no, it's not always because she is playing hard to get with you.

If you get rejected by a woman you really want to date, and you don't know what to do, pay attention. First, you want to look at the possible reasons why she may have rejected you. Did you approach her the right way before you asked her out on a date, or did you do it in a way that made her feel uncomfortable and awkward? Was she really going to be busy that night or was she just using it as an excuse?

Next, you do want to set your eyes on more than just her. It's never a good thing to get stuck on that one woman, especially when she is not your girlfriend. There are so many women out there who are attractive, single, and there's no reason to get hung up on just one. Besides, the more women that you go after, the more women that you approach, the better YOU are going to get. And when you DO get better at approaching and interacting with women, you just might get that second shot at the one you did have your eyes on.