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1. Own up for your lack of success.
This is a big thing to do. Why? Because when most guys fail to get the girl... they blame the woman. They say something to the effect of "she doesn't know a good thing when she sees it" or some other rationalization. Problem with that is... it does NOTHING at all to help you get better with women. All it does is act like a cozy warm blanket for your feelings and your ego. Do you really need a warm and cozy blanket for your feelings? Or do you need to get more positive reactions from the women you want to date?
2. Put a stop to doing things that make it harder to attract women.
What do I mean by this? Well, let's say that your average Friday night consists of shooting pool with a couple of guys in a place that has not had a desirable woman walk into it in ten years, lol. Stop going there and wasting your Friday nights. Start going to places where the odds are in your favor and you KNOW that there are going to be desirable women. I would much rather hit up a popular nightclub even if it made me feel a little "uncomfortable" at first than to spend my time somewhere where I know that I am not going to meet a good looking woman.
3. Don't take advice from guys who are not actually getting results.
Would you take business advice from a guy stocking shelves in a grocery store? Probably not, at least... not if you actually wanted to start up a real business, right? Well, why would you follow the advice of guys that just do not get women? I can remember being younger and following the advice of guys that really did not do any better than I did. The moment I stopped listening to them... things got MUCH better.
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