Tuesday, June 21, 2011

How to Steer Clear of Abusive Men

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1) An overly aggressive man is much more likely to end up being abusive.
If you notice that a man you are interested in does not seem to be able to exert enough self control and gets overly aggressive, then chances are... he does have the potential to be abusive. Of course, in the beginning, he probably will not be that way towards you. They never are. However, if you see him act this way towards other people, that may be your warning sign that one day things could change and his aggression could end up headed in your direction.
2) A guy who tends to bottle up his emotions is a lot more likely to explode later on.
A lot of women get "tricked" by this, because they see him being passive or he does not seem to show a lot of overt anger. However, you can usually tell when someone is bottling things up. Not every guy who bottles up his emotions will be abusive, but this is a warning sign that the possibility may be there.
3) It usually starts with verbal abuse and then escalates.
This is a really important sign to watch out for. If he gets verbally abusive, it can just as easily escalate to something more physical. And even if it does not escalate to physical abuse, verbal abuse can be just as bad and hard to live with. You don't want to end up with a guy who finds a way to put you down every day of the week, do you

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